First off, wow. My year was filled with an abundant supply of blessings. I continue to be amazed at the love and support my community pours into the Miss Brainerd Lakes Scholarship Program, Inc. and I couldn't be more excited for the new titleholders and the year they have ahead of them!
The biggest congrats to Emily Lundgren, the new Miss Brainerd Lakes 2014! Emily is fantastic and I know she will be an incredible representative for the Brainerd Lakes Area community. Also congrats to the new Miss Brainerd Lakes' Outstanding Teen, Rylie Young; Miss Central Lakes, Jade Hovet; and Miss Central Lakes' Outstanding Teen, Kate Smith!
Thank you to all for making my year so great! I'm certainly not done competing, but in the meantime you can find me blogging at www.baileywachholz.blogspot.com in which I hope to keep updated as much as possible.
With the biggest and fullest heart,
Bailey Wachholz
Gretchen Ennis Photography
Thursday, October 23, 2014
Thursday, October 2, 2014
My Last Month
Has it really been a month since my last blog?! Hard to believe how fast this month has gone by! In just two short weeks I'll be crowning a new Miss Brainerd Lakes.
Since it has in fact been a month since my last blog, I'll start with Miracle Treat Day at the end of August. I participated in Miracle Treat Day at both Dairy Queens in Brainerd and at the Nisswa Dairy Queen. A portion of every blizzard purchased was donated to the Children's Miracle Network so it was really fun to be able to be there as Miss Brainerd Lakes and talk about how great the Children's Miracle Network is and the fantastic work of Gillette Children's Hospital.
I was then able to volunteer at the Brainerd Senior Center's annual RibFest fundraiser serving pie and speaking to those in attendance. It's always fun to volunteer at events like this one and see people you know! I was happy to give my time to such a fantastic program.
Last week, my sister queens and I got asked to attend the annual fundraiser for Ski Gull, which is a local non-profit program. We were in charge of selling raffles tickets for various prizes and it was really great to see the community come together to support a great cause. I am so lucky to represent the Brainerd community!
Most recently, my sister queens joined my team for the Lakes Area Walk to End Alzheimer's. This was my fifth year walking in honor of my Dad and once again Team Wachholz was one of the top fundraisers! Thanks to the help of my team, I was able to raise just under $4,000 which put me under my goal but I'll be raising money until the end of the year. If you feel inclined to help me reach my $5,000 goal, please visit www.alz/org/walk and search for my name or for Team Wachholz 2014.
Right after the walk, we raced over to downtown Brainerd for the Homecoming Parade! It's always fun to see to turnout of people decked out in blue and white and to see some familiar faces. This was my second year doing this as Miss Brainerd Lakes (because the pageant was moved out 2 months), but I'd have to say that this year was better than last because it was nearly 75 degrees and sunny compared to the 60 degree and rain we had last year. We also had the opportunity to sell cupcakes at the football as a fundraiser for our scholarship fund! It was well worth it as we raised a lot of money for our scholarships. I am so excited for our pageant!
The homecoming parade was bittersweet as I realized that it was my last official appearance. While I hope I will have another title in the future, I know I will never be Miss Brainerd Lakes again. This was such a fantastic year! I hope to see you all at the pageant on October 18th at 4pm at Tornstrom Auditorium in Brainerd to see some incredible young women compete.
With love and gratitude,
Miss Brainerd Lakes 2013
Bailey Wachholz
Since it has in fact been a month since my last blog, I'll start with Miracle Treat Day at the end of August. I participated in Miracle Treat Day at both Dairy Queens in Brainerd and at the Nisswa Dairy Queen. A portion of every blizzard purchased was donated to the Children's Miracle Network so it was really fun to be able to be there as Miss Brainerd Lakes and talk about how great the Children's Miracle Network is and the fantastic work of Gillette Children's Hospital.
I was then able to volunteer at the Brainerd Senior Center's annual RibFest fundraiser serving pie and speaking to those in attendance. It's always fun to volunteer at events like this one and see people you know! I was happy to give my time to such a fantastic program.
Last week, my sister queens and I got asked to attend the annual fundraiser for Ski Gull, which is a local non-profit program. We were in charge of selling raffles tickets for various prizes and it was really great to see the community come together to support a great cause. I am so lucky to represent the Brainerd community!
Most recently, my sister queens joined my team for the Lakes Area Walk to End Alzheimer's. This was my fifth year walking in honor of my Dad and once again Team Wachholz was one of the top fundraisers! Thanks to the help of my team, I was able to raise just under $4,000 which put me under my goal but I'll be raising money until the end of the year. If you feel inclined to help me reach my $5,000 goal, please visit www.alz/org/walk and search for my name or for Team Wachholz 2014.
Right after the walk, we raced over to downtown Brainerd for the Homecoming Parade! It's always fun to see to turnout of people decked out in blue and white and to see some familiar faces. This was my second year doing this as Miss Brainerd Lakes (because the pageant was moved out 2 months), but I'd have to say that this year was better than last because it was nearly 75 degrees and sunny compared to the 60 degree and rain we had last year. We also had the opportunity to sell cupcakes at the football as a fundraiser for our scholarship fund! It was well worth it as we raised a lot of money for our scholarships. I am so excited for our pageant!
The homecoming parade was bittersweet as I realized that it was my last official appearance. While I hope I will have another title in the future, I know I will never be Miss Brainerd Lakes again. This was such a fantastic year! I hope to see you all at the pageant on October 18th at 4pm at Tornstrom Auditorium in Brainerd to see some incredible young women compete.
With love and gratitude,
Miss Brainerd Lakes 2013
Bailey Wachholz
Tuesday, August 5, 2014
Crow Wing County Fair fun!
It is a sad realization, but there are just under two months until I crown a new Miss Brainerd Lakes. This year has been quite the journey. There have been easy parts and there have been hard parts, but at the end of the day I see that this year has been nothing short of incredible. I can't wait for another girl to experience the kind of year I have had!
A week and a half ago, I volunteered at the Northern Plaid Festival and 5K. This event benefited the Brighter Days Foundation, which has quickly become a program I have grow to love and support. The goal of the Brighter Days Foundation is to make a day better for a child who is struggling with a disability or is terminally ill. I was happy to volunteer my time to such a phenomenal program!
One week ago today, my sister queens and I kicked off the Crow Wing County Fair by welcoming everyone to our incredible community at the Opening Ceremonies. We then had the opportunity to walk around and spend time with those in attendance.
Day 2 of the Fair began with an old car and tractor parade. I was able to begin the parade with Tom, a Fair board member. Once again, Molly and I were able to walk around, sign autographs, and see the fair booths.
Day 3 was Senior Recognition Day. Molly and I were honored to help with the Outstanding Senior Recognition ceremony and serve cake and lemonade to those in attendance.
Day 4 was spent judging the pre-teen, teen, and open talent shows with my sister queen, Lauren. I was blown away by the talent displayed onstage and it was extremely difficult to pick a winner in each category, but we somehow managed to do it. Plus we were lucky enough to announce the winners who will represent Crow Wing County at the State Fair!
Our fifth and final day at the Fair was spent at the Grandstand welcoming the old tractor parade and speaking about our incredible year as Miss Brainerd Lakes and Miss Brainerd Lakes' Outstanding Teen. We were also able to volunteer at Kids Kountry, which is an interactive exhibit that teaches kids about agriculture.
The fun didn't stop there as Saturday night Molly and I headed to Leader, MN for the famous Pig Races! This is a Miss Brainerd Lakes tradition and I was so excited to keep the tradition alive! Leader, MN has a population of 7 but the Pig Races are always packed full with people from all areas of Minnesota. If you have yet to visit, make sure to get up there before Labor Day :)
Today, I was able to speak and play piano to a group of women from the Brainerd Lakes Area who have kindly supported me in my year as Miss Minnesota's Outstanding Teen 2012 and Miss Brainerd Lakes 2013. They have graciously provided countless scholarship dollars to further my education and have been fantastic supporters.
Much love,
Bailey
Miss Brainerd Lakes 2013
A week and a half ago, I volunteered at the Northern Plaid Festival and 5K. This event benefited the Brighter Days Foundation, which has quickly become a program I have grow to love and support. The goal of the Brighter Days Foundation is to make a day better for a child who is struggling with a disability or is terminally ill. I was happy to volunteer my time to such a phenomenal program!
One week ago today, my sister queens and I kicked off the Crow Wing County Fair by welcoming everyone to our incredible community at the Opening Ceremonies. We then had the opportunity to walk around and spend time with those in attendance.
Day 2 of the Fair began with an old car and tractor parade. I was able to begin the parade with Tom, a Fair board member. Once again, Molly and I were able to walk around, sign autographs, and see the fair booths.
Day 3 was Senior Recognition Day. Molly and I were honored to help with the Outstanding Senior Recognition ceremony and serve cake and lemonade to those in attendance.
Day 4 was spent judging the pre-teen, teen, and open talent shows with my sister queen, Lauren. I was blown away by the talent displayed onstage and it was extremely difficult to pick a winner in each category, but we somehow managed to do it. Plus we were lucky enough to announce the winners who will represent Crow Wing County at the State Fair!
Our fifth and final day at the Fair was spent at the Grandstand welcoming the old tractor parade and speaking about our incredible year as Miss Brainerd Lakes and Miss Brainerd Lakes' Outstanding Teen. We were also able to volunteer at Kids Kountry, which is an interactive exhibit that teaches kids about agriculture.
The fun didn't stop there as Saturday night Molly and I headed to Leader, MN for the famous Pig Races! This is a Miss Brainerd Lakes tradition and I was so excited to keep the tradition alive! Leader, MN has a population of 7 but the Pig Races are always packed full with people from all areas of Minnesota. If you have yet to visit, make sure to get up there before Labor Day :)
Yup. I kissed a pig :)
Today, I was able to speak and play piano to a group of women from the Brainerd Lakes Area who have kindly supported me in my year as Miss Minnesota's Outstanding Teen 2012 and Miss Brainerd Lakes 2013. They have graciously provided countless scholarship dollars to further my education and have been fantastic supporters.
Much love,
Bailey
Miss Brainerd Lakes 2013
Monday, July 21, 2014
The craziness of Miss Brainerd Lakes
It has once again been a busy week in the life of Miss Brainerd Lakes! What a blessing it is to make so many fun and exciting appearances in my hometown.
The Fourth of July is always one of the most fun times of the year. Molly and I kicked off our Fourth of July festivities at the Nisswa Turtle Races. Over 700 racers registered that day and Molly and I had the opportunity to be line judges to see which turtle crossed the line first. That night was the Nisswa Fourth of July parade which is always one of my favorites because I grew up in Nisswa. It's so fun to see some familiar faces in the crowd. This was definitely one of the biggest parades Nisswa has had and I was lucky enough to be a part of it! Thank you Dondelinger Auto for sponsoring a beautiful car for us to ride in.
The next day was the Brainerd Fourth of July parade. While this parade is always one of the longest, it is SO worth seeing the precious little girls faces light up when they see princesses! For years I've watched Miss Brainerd Lakes in the Brainerd parade and have often looked up to her. Now I'm that girl and I couldn't feel more blessed or honored!
The next day was Arts in the Park at Gregory Park in which Molly and I walked around to sign autographs and take pictures. It's a tradition for Miss Brainerd Lakes to be there every year and I was happy to carry on that tradition.
I then attended the Miss Northwest and Miss Northwest's Outstanding Teen pageant in Detroit Lakes. Chantal, Miss Northwest 2013, became a great friend during Miss Minnesota week and I was happy to be there to support her and see her one last time before she headed back to Boston. She was a fabulous Miss Northwest and I couldn't be more proud to call her a friend. I know she is going to make a killer lawyer.
The next day was the Miss Morris Area and Miss Midwest pageant. The outgoing queens, Cassey and Chelsea, also became incredible friends during Miss Minnesota week. Also one of my best friends and Miss Minnesota's Outstanding Teen sister, Corrina was competing for the first time in a "Miss" pageant. Though it was weird to see her onstage, I was so proud! Corrina has certainly come a long way and I know a Miss title is in her future.
Then it was off to Prior Lake the next day for a sendoff party for our 2014 Miss Minnesota's Outstanding Teen, Lauren. Lauren will leave is just a few days for the Miss America's Outstanding Teen pageant. I can't wait to hear how awesome she will do!
I literally felt like I was living out of my car because two days later I was back in the car heading to Thief River Falls for the Miss Thief River Falls and Miss Riverfest pageant! Miss Thief River Falls 2013, Taylor, became a another great friend during Miss Minnesota week (seriously... these ladies are incredible!). I had never been to Thief River Falls before so it was fun to be at the pageant supporting Taylor! After the pageant, we were able to get some food at a local restaurant and catch up but also get to know the two new titleholders.
The Country Sampler Picnic was the day after, so I headed to the Northland Arboretum in Brainerd for a night of great food and fun. This is another Miss Brainerd Lakes tradition and was probably one of the most fun appearances of the summer! I signed many autographs and was able to meet some really great people from the Brainerd Lakes area. Molly, Lauren, and I along with our princesses also watched the pig races which is always great entertainment.
To conclude my crazy week, Molly and I handed out awards at North Central Speedway in Brainerd! We were lucky enough to get box seats because I certainly was not prepared for how loud the car races are! This was my first time ever seeing car races and it was so much fun. Plus it was fun to congratulate the winners and have the opportunity to pose for a picture with them.
With love,
Bailey
Miss Brainerd Lakes 2013
The Fourth of July is always one of the most fun times of the year. Molly and I kicked off our Fourth of July festivities at the Nisswa Turtle Races. Over 700 racers registered that day and Molly and I had the opportunity to be line judges to see which turtle crossed the line first. That night was the Nisswa Fourth of July parade which is always one of my favorites because I grew up in Nisswa. It's so fun to see some familiar faces in the crowd. This was definitely one of the biggest parades Nisswa has had and I was lucky enough to be a part of it! Thank you Dondelinger Auto for sponsoring a beautiful car for us to ride in.
The next day was the Brainerd Fourth of July parade. While this parade is always one of the longest, it is SO worth seeing the precious little girls faces light up when they see princesses! For years I've watched Miss Brainerd Lakes in the Brainerd parade and have often looked up to her. Now I'm that girl and I couldn't feel more blessed or honored!
The next day was Arts in the Park at Gregory Park in which Molly and I walked around to sign autographs and take pictures. It's a tradition for Miss Brainerd Lakes to be there every year and I was happy to carry on that tradition.
I then attended the Miss Northwest and Miss Northwest's Outstanding Teen pageant in Detroit Lakes. Chantal, Miss Northwest 2013, became a great friend during Miss Minnesota week and I was happy to be there to support her and see her one last time before she headed back to Boston. She was a fabulous Miss Northwest and I couldn't be more proud to call her a friend. I know she is going to make a killer lawyer.
The next day was the Miss Morris Area and Miss Midwest pageant. The outgoing queens, Cassey and Chelsea, also became incredible friends during Miss Minnesota week. Also one of my best friends and Miss Minnesota's Outstanding Teen sister, Corrina was competing for the first time in a "Miss" pageant. Though it was weird to see her onstage, I was so proud! Corrina has certainly come a long way and I know a Miss title is in her future.
Cassey
Corrina
Then it was off to Prior Lake the next day for a sendoff party for our 2014 Miss Minnesota's Outstanding Teen, Lauren. Lauren will leave is just a few days for the Miss America's Outstanding Teen pageant. I can't wait to hear how awesome she will do!
I literally felt like I was living out of my car because two days later I was back in the car heading to Thief River Falls for the Miss Thief River Falls and Miss Riverfest pageant! Miss Thief River Falls 2013, Taylor, became a another great friend during Miss Minnesota week (seriously... these ladies are incredible!). I had never been to Thief River Falls before so it was fun to be at the pageant supporting Taylor! After the pageant, we were able to get some food at a local restaurant and catch up but also get to know the two new titleholders.
The Country Sampler Picnic was the day after, so I headed to the Northland Arboretum in Brainerd for a night of great food and fun. This is another Miss Brainerd Lakes tradition and was probably one of the most fun appearances of the summer! I signed many autographs and was able to meet some really great people from the Brainerd Lakes area. Molly, Lauren, and I along with our princesses also watched the pig races which is always great entertainment.
To conclude my crazy week, Molly and I handed out awards at North Central Speedway in Brainerd! We were lucky enough to get box seats because I certainly was not prepared for how loud the car races are! This was my first time ever seeing car races and it was so much fun. Plus it was fun to congratulate the winners and have the opportunity to pose for a picture with them.
With love,
Bailey
Miss Brainerd Lakes 2013
Tuesday, July 1, 2014
A Confession.
I have a confession to make. I told you all in a recent blog and on my Facebook page that I was okay with not making Top 11 at Miss Minnesota 2014, and that was no lie. I really am okay and it has given me an even deeper drive to continue competing, better myself, and raise awareness to Alzheimer's disease. I can promise you that.
But what I have done is something I regret doing. As my MAOTeen sister, Deon, said perfect; "Then, I read this horrible thing all pageant girls know as a bad word: the message board."
Yes, I read the Voy board upon my arrival home from Miss Minnesota week. I don't know why I did it. I know the negative consequences of reading these message boards. I know that comments left on the Voy board to not reflect me or my character, yet somehow I couldn't pull myself away from reading what anonymous people had to say about my performance. I yearned for some kind of explanation as to why, after months (even years!) of preparation, I didn't even make Top 11. I saw things I wish I wouldn't have; I looked too "tired" onstage, I wasn't fit enough, I wasn't a standout. You name it, I probably saw it. For days after reading these comments, I felt worthless. I felt I had let everyone down who predicted I would make Top 11. I was frustrated. I put everything I had on that Miss Minnesota stage. Every ounces of who Bailey is was poured onto that stage. To come back and read these comments about my performance was so unbelievably discouraging. I can't even put into words the despair I felt. For days I believed I wasn't worthy enough. That the reason I didn't make Top 11 was because I wasn't good enough, skinny enough, pretty enough, or smart enough to be Miss Minnesota.
I don't know when it happened, but I finally stepped back from my mini obsession with the Voy board and allowed God to heal the brokenness and pain I was feeling as a result of my stupid action. To my surprise, I found the answer to my question not from the message board, but in Christ. I have always known that my worth is found in Christ and in Christ alone, but after a few days of reading the Voy board, I had lost sight of that. I was trying to find my worth in the opinions of people who foolishly hid behind the anonymity of a silly message board instead of in my Lord and Savior.
It was a very humbling experience for me. I wasn't going to share this experience because of the fear that I would be judged for reading the Voy board. I didn't want others to think any less of me for believing and reading what so many people encouraged me not to do.
But then I realized, no. I needed to share this experience with those around me. I made a mistake. I'm human. I'm not perfect. Though I'm still afraid of what people might think of me, I know I'm not the only contestant to have read the Voy board and go through the same feelings I did.
My ultimate purpose for writing this blog is to encourage those who do post on message boards to stop. You can have your predictions for Top 11, I have no problem with that. It's fun to make predictions, then see how correct you are! But my hope is that instead of posting it on the message board, you would keep it to yourself. What may seem like an innocent and almost entertaining post about who you believe will make the cut, can hurt and tear down a contestant more than you know. Whether they are in your prediction or not. As much as a shock as this may be, Miss Minnesota contestants are human. We have thick skin, but words hurt more than anything in this world and can pierce even the toughest skin. You can never erase what you read. Not even the best Miss Minnesota or Miss America.
Regardless of your opinions about the new Miss Minnesota or Miss Minnesota's Outstanding Teen, they are still our state titleholders. Publicly bashing them on an immature message board will not change that. Instead of nit-picking on what their hair looks like, what clothes they wear, their makeup, or what they have or have not done with their platforms, lets uplift both of our state titleholders. Both are preparing to compete in their national pageant and need the support now more that ever before. This is about to be one of the most challenging yet exciting years in both of their lives. Both Miss Minnesota and Miss Minnesota's Outstanding Teen are far greater than outer beauty. This simple fact is important to remember as we uplift our state titleholders during this transitional time in their lives.
I would personally like to see more positive things on the message board. I love reading positive comments, especially about the work that local contestants do with their platform. This is such a huge part of the Miss America Organization, yet often gets overlooked for more trivial things like wardrobe and hair/makeup. For example, my roommate, Kailee won the Tracie Joy McBride Quality of Life award and didn't get NEARLY as much recognition as she deserve. Kailee is an incredible woman of Christ and was such a bright light for all of us during the week. I certainly wouldn't have been able to get through the week without her, and I know it was the same for many others. Instead of grumbling about the women who were not a finalist for Quality of Life, lets celebrate how incredible Kailee is and how deserving she is.
As I reflect back on my Miss Minnesota week, I have a compete understanding in the Plan and Purpose God laid out for me that week. I knew in my heart that it was not my year to win Miss Minnesota. God laid that on my heart many months before Miss Minnesota week, and I was fine with that. But I did know I was there for a specific purpose and that purpose was made clear towards to end of the week. I still left Miss Minnesota week feeling so full and happy. I didn't need to make Top 11 to feel worthy. I am in a way better place than I was last week, and I can say that with complete confidence. Your prayers and kind words mean the world to me. I couldn't ask for a better support system. From the bottom of heart and with everything I have, I thank you.
With love,
Bailey Wachholz
Miss Brainerd Lakes 2013
But what I have done is something I regret doing. As my MAOTeen sister, Deon, said perfect; "Then, I read this horrible thing all pageant girls know as a bad word: the message board."
Yes, I read the Voy board upon my arrival home from Miss Minnesota week. I don't know why I did it. I know the negative consequences of reading these message boards. I know that comments left on the Voy board to not reflect me or my character, yet somehow I couldn't pull myself away from reading what anonymous people had to say about my performance. I yearned for some kind of explanation as to why, after months (even years!) of preparation, I didn't even make Top 11. I saw things I wish I wouldn't have; I looked too "tired" onstage, I wasn't fit enough, I wasn't a standout. You name it, I probably saw it. For days after reading these comments, I felt worthless. I felt I had let everyone down who predicted I would make Top 11. I was frustrated. I put everything I had on that Miss Minnesota stage. Every ounces of who Bailey is was poured onto that stage. To come back and read these comments about my performance was so unbelievably discouraging. I can't even put into words the despair I felt. For days I believed I wasn't worthy enough. That the reason I didn't make Top 11 was because I wasn't good enough, skinny enough, pretty enough, or smart enough to be Miss Minnesota.
I don't know when it happened, but I finally stepped back from my mini obsession with the Voy board and allowed God to heal the brokenness and pain I was feeling as a result of my stupid action. To my surprise, I found the answer to my question not from the message board, but in Christ. I have always known that my worth is found in Christ and in Christ alone, but after a few days of reading the Voy board, I had lost sight of that. I was trying to find my worth in the opinions of people who foolishly hid behind the anonymity of a silly message board instead of in my Lord and Savior.
It was a very humbling experience for me. I wasn't going to share this experience because of the fear that I would be judged for reading the Voy board. I didn't want others to think any less of me for believing and reading what so many people encouraged me not to do.
But then I realized, no. I needed to share this experience with those around me. I made a mistake. I'm human. I'm not perfect. Though I'm still afraid of what people might think of me, I know I'm not the only contestant to have read the Voy board and go through the same feelings I did.
My ultimate purpose for writing this blog is to encourage those who do post on message boards to stop. You can have your predictions for Top 11, I have no problem with that. It's fun to make predictions, then see how correct you are! But my hope is that instead of posting it on the message board, you would keep it to yourself. What may seem like an innocent and almost entertaining post about who you believe will make the cut, can hurt and tear down a contestant more than you know. Whether they are in your prediction or not. As much as a shock as this may be, Miss Minnesota contestants are human. We have thick skin, but words hurt more than anything in this world and can pierce even the toughest skin. You can never erase what you read. Not even the best Miss Minnesota or Miss America.
Regardless of your opinions about the new Miss Minnesota or Miss Minnesota's Outstanding Teen, they are still our state titleholders. Publicly bashing them on an immature message board will not change that. Instead of nit-picking on what their hair looks like, what clothes they wear, their makeup, or what they have or have not done with their platforms, lets uplift both of our state titleholders. Both are preparing to compete in their national pageant and need the support now more that ever before. This is about to be one of the most challenging yet exciting years in both of their lives. Both Miss Minnesota and Miss Minnesota's Outstanding Teen are far greater than outer beauty. This simple fact is important to remember as we uplift our state titleholders during this transitional time in their lives.
I would personally like to see more positive things on the message board. I love reading positive comments, especially about the work that local contestants do with their platform. This is such a huge part of the Miss America Organization, yet often gets overlooked for more trivial things like wardrobe and hair/makeup. For example, my roommate, Kailee won the Tracie Joy McBride Quality of Life award and didn't get NEARLY as much recognition as she deserve. Kailee is an incredible woman of Christ and was such a bright light for all of us during the week. I certainly wouldn't have been able to get through the week without her, and I know it was the same for many others. Instead of grumbling about the women who were not a finalist for Quality of Life, lets celebrate how incredible Kailee is and how deserving she is.
As I reflect back on my Miss Minnesota week, I have a compete understanding in the Plan and Purpose God laid out for me that week. I knew in my heart that it was not my year to win Miss Minnesota. God laid that on my heart many months before Miss Minnesota week, and I was fine with that. But I did know I was there for a specific purpose and that purpose was made clear towards to end of the week. I still left Miss Minnesota week feeling so full and happy. I didn't need to make Top 11 to feel worthy. I am in a way better place than I was last week, and I can say that with complete confidence. Your prayers and kind words mean the world to me. I couldn't ask for a better support system. From the bottom of heart and with everything I have, I thank you.
With love,
Bailey Wachholz
Miss Brainerd Lakes 2013
Kiddy Parades, Culver's, and Disney World!
Life did in fact move on after Miss Minnesota week with various appearances around the Brainerd Lakes area!
Last week was Brainerd History Week in celebration of the 100th year anniversary of various buildings in downtown Brainerd. My sister queens and I along, with the Crow Wing County Dairy Princess, participated in the Teddy Bear Kiddy parade right in downtown Brainerd. The kids were adorable and many of them were starstruck at seeing so many princesses! It was a fabulous reminder of the power that a crown can have. I may not be Miss Minnesota, but to those little girls who shyly asked for an autograph, I am. I could impact their life in such a simple way just by saying hello to them. How incredible it is to be a part of such a great and powerful program!
That same day, I headed over to Culver's in Baxter in celebration of June Dairy Month. I had done this event two years ago, but as Miss Minnesota's Outstanding Teen 2012. It was great to be back, but I was a bit nervous as I was asked to milk a cow in the cow milking contest. I have never milked a cow. Ever. My uncle operated a dairy farm for many years, but I was more interested in the barn kittens at my young age than in learning how to milk a cow! I had a few tips up my sleeve, but it was a lot harder than I expected and was only able to get about .5 ounces of milk in 30 seconds! Not terrible, but also not the best :)
Also that day was a custard eating contest! The contest was to see who could eat 8 ounces of custard the fastest. I slurped that custard down pretty fast, but was sad to not be able to enjoy it fully. All-in-all, it was a fantastic day and I was happy to have my sister queens beside me through it all :)
Then I was off to Florida on a short vacation! Though it was hot and humid, it was so much fun to walk around Disney and sit and enjoy the sun without a care in the world. I was sad to leave, but I'm enjoying the Minnesota weather :)
Always,
Bailey
Miss Brainerd Lakes 2013
Last week was Brainerd History Week in celebration of the 100th year anniversary of various buildings in downtown Brainerd. My sister queens and I along, with the Crow Wing County Dairy Princess, participated in the Teddy Bear Kiddy parade right in downtown Brainerd. The kids were adorable and many of them were starstruck at seeing so many princesses! It was a fabulous reminder of the power that a crown can have. I may not be Miss Minnesota, but to those little girls who shyly asked for an autograph, I am. I could impact their life in such a simple way just by saying hello to them. How incredible it is to be a part of such a great and powerful program!
That same day, I headed over to Culver's in Baxter in celebration of June Dairy Month. I had done this event two years ago, but as Miss Minnesota's Outstanding Teen 2012. It was great to be back, but I was a bit nervous as I was asked to milk a cow in the cow milking contest. I have never milked a cow. Ever. My uncle operated a dairy farm for many years, but I was more interested in the barn kittens at my young age than in learning how to milk a cow! I had a few tips up my sleeve, but it was a lot harder than I expected and was only able to get about .5 ounces of milk in 30 seconds! Not terrible, but also not the best :)
Our wonderful Senators and Representatives!
Also that day was a custard eating contest! The contest was to see who could eat 8 ounces of custard the fastest. I slurped that custard down pretty fast, but was sad to not be able to enjoy it fully. All-in-all, it was a fantastic day and I was happy to have my sister queens beside me through it all :)
Then I was off to Florida on a short vacation! Though it was hot and humid, it was so much fun to walk around Disney and sit and enjoy the sun without a care in the world. I was sad to leave, but I'm enjoying the Minnesota weather :)
Always,
Bailey
Miss Brainerd Lakes 2013
Sunday, June 22, 2014
Miss Minnesota week!
I think that this blog is long overdue and I apologize. Life got even more busy after Miss Minnesota week when I got back to "reality" and went back to work.
I started off strong with two days of blogs, but the little sleep during the week really caught up to me and I fell behind on the blogs. Forgive me!
Day 3 was exhausting yet fun all at the same time! The day started with a trip to the Veterans Home in which we were able to talk to the residents and their families, sing patriotic songs, and signing autographs. I left many different emotions as the military is extremely close to my heart. I come from a family with strong ties to the military and know how important these individuals are to our community. It was extremely interesting hearing their stories and was yet another reminder of the impact these individuals have had on my life. Freedom isn't free. There would be no way I could participate in the Miss America Program had it not been for these individuals who gave up so much so that I could have a better tomorrow.
After the Veterans Home visit, we headed for our rehearsal at the Eden Prairie Performing Arts Center then prepared for Open Arms. Open Arms is a non-profit organization that cooks and delivers free meals to those who have specific nutritional needs that need to be met. I worked the salad line with three fantastic ladies - Miss Waseca County Sleigh and Cutter, Katie; Miss Frazee, Ashley; and Miss Morris Area, Cassie. We had SO much fun and only made a little bit of a mess :)
Day 4 marked the official start of the preliminary competition! The day started with personal interviews. I walked out after my interview feeling fantastic but also knowing God's Plan was already unfolding. I was at peace for the rest of the day and couldn't wait for prelims to start! I would be competing in onstage question and talent. I felt great about my onstage question and have never performed my talent better! I was feeling on fire and couldn't wait to see my family and committee for the first time all week. That night, I walked away with the Impact of Change scholarship award for my service work and platform which was sponsored by Tiffany Buszta. It was such an honor to receive this award! I also received my Bronze medal for the Duke of Edinburgh program which was a 3-month-long process.
Day 5 began with a visit to the Minnesota Autism Center (MAC), a K-12 school for those that fall on the autism spectrum. I had never heard of MAC, but I'm thankful Rebecca Yeh, Miss Minnesota 2013 introduced me to such a fantastic school! If you have never heard of MAC, I highly recommend looking into it. I left feeling inspired by the children that I met there. It was such a blast! After MAC, we headed back to the auditorium for rehearsal before the second night of prelims! This night, I would compete in swimsuit and evening gown. Again, I felt I left my heart on that stage and couldn't have performed any better. This night, I was honored to stand beside 4 other incredible women for the Tracie Joy McBride Quality of Life award. Congrats to runner up, Emily Kallis, and my roomie for the week, Kailee Ogden who walked away as the 2014 Quality of Life winner!! These two are incredible individuals and I am so happy that I had the chance to get to know them better throughout the week.
Day 6 was a fun day at the Mall of America with the 2014 Northern Lights Princesses! We enjoyed a morning with Radio Disney and spent the day making crafts, dancing and singing, and decorating crown boxes with our princess. My princess was Andi who is from Brainerd and has participated in the Brainerd princess program and who I've know for many years. The princesses were also crowned that morning so it was fun to see how excited some of the princesses were! It was a fun morning and I even got to see my Outstanding Teen, Molly :) The rest of the day we had some down time to relax and pack before the Crowns and Gowns gala at the Radisson Blu. The gala was a beautiful event put on by the Sister to Sister Program made up of former Miss Minnesota's. It was an emotional night for me because it was a beautiful reminder of the rich history and power of the Miss Minnesota Program. I was honored to be in that room with so many former Miss Minnesota's and so many people who tirelessly volunteer for this amazing program. It was a fantastic way to end Miss Minnesota week (but also the jam sesh and girl talk we had in our room with a couple of the other contestants!).
Day 7 was our last and final day. That night a new Miss Minnesota would be crowned and I felt very relaxed knowing that God's Plan for my life far surpassed the outcome of the pageant that night. I knew I had done everything I could have possibly done, left my heart and soul on that stage, and remained fully myself in the process! I knew I could leave that night feeling fulfilled. I didn't walk away as Miss Minnesota, but the friendships that were formed and the memories made were far greater than anything a crown could ever give me. There are no words to describe how fantastic the week was! I walked away that night as the Miss America Community Service winner for the work that I've done with the Alzheimer's Association and my personal platform promoting children and teen dementia education. That was a huge honor and I will continue to fight for a cure long after my competitive pageant days have come to an end. This is a life-long commitment for me.
Thank you for all that supported me on this journey! I know and understand that God has something greater in store for me and I can't wait to see what exactly that entails :)
With love and gratitude,
Bailey
Miss Brainerd Lakes 2013
I started off strong with two days of blogs, but the little sleep during the week really caught up to me and I fell behind on the blogs. Forgive me!
Day 3 was exhausting yet fun all at the same time! The day started with a trip to the Veterans Home in which we were able to talk to the residents and their families, sing patriotic songs, and signing autographs. I left many different emotions as the military is extremely close to my heart. I come from a family with strong ties to the military and know how important these individuals are to our community. It was extremely interesting hearing their stories and was yet another reminder of the impact these individuals have had on my life. Freedom isn't free. There would be no way I could participate in the Miss America Program had it not been for these individuals who gave up so much so that I could have a better tomorrow.
After the Veterans Home visit, we headed for our rehearsal at the Eden Prairie Performing Arts Center then prepared for Open Arms. Open Arms is a non-profit organization that cooks and delivers free meals to those who have specific nutritional needs that need to be met. I worked the salad line with three fantastic ladies - Miss Waseca County Sleigh and Cutter, Katie; Miss Frazee, Ashley; and Miss Morris Area, Cassie. We had SO much fun and only made a little bit of a mess :)
Day 4 marked the official start of the preliminary competition! The day started with personal interviews. I walked out after my interview feeling fantastic but also knowing God's Plan was already unfolding. I was at peace for the rest of the day and couldn't wait for prelims to start! I would be competing in onstage question and talent. I felt great about my onstage question and have never performed my talent better! I was feeling on fire and couldn't wait to see my family and committee for the first time all week. That night, I walked away with the Impact of Change scholarship award for my service work and platform which was sponsored by Tiffany Buszta. It was such an honor to receive this award! I also received my Bronze medal for the Duke of Edinburgh program which was a 3-month-long process.
Day 5 began with a visit to the Minnesota Autism Center (MAC), a K-12 school for those that fall on the autism spectrum. I had never heard of MAC, but I'm thankful Rebecca Yeh, Miss Minnesota 2013 introduced me to such a fantastic school! If you have never heard of MAC, I highly recommend looking into it. I left feeling inspired by the children that I met there. It was such a blast! After MAC, we headed back to the auditorium for rehearsal before the second night of prelims! This night, I would compete in swimsuit and evening gown. Again, I felt I left my heart on that stage and couldn't have performed any better. This night, I was honored to stand beside 4 other incredible women for the Tracie Joy McBride Quality of Life award. Congrats to runner up, Emily Kallis, and my roomie for the week, Kailee Ogden who walked away as the 2014 Quality of Life winner!! These two are incredible individuals and I am so happy that I had the chance to get to know them better throughout the week.
Day 6 was a fun day at the Mall of America with the 2014 Northern Lights Princesses! We enjoyed a morning with Radio Disney and spent the day making crafts, dancing and singing, and decorating crown boxes with our princess. My princess was Andi who is from Brainerd and has participated in the Brainerd princess program and who I've know for many years. The princesses were also crowned that morning so it was fun to see how excited some of the princesses were! It was a fun morning and I even got to see my Outstanding Teen, Molly :) The rest of the day we had some down time to relax and pack before the Crowns and Gowns gala at the Radisson Blu. The gala was a beautiful event put on by the Sister to Sister Program made up of former Miss Minnesota's. It was an emotional night for me because it was a beautiful reminder of the rich history and power of the Miss Minnesota Program. I was honored to be in that room with so many former Miss Minnesota's and so many people who tirelessly volunteer for this amazing program. It was a fantastic way to end Miss Minnesota week (but also the jam sesh and girl talk we had in our room with a couple of the other contestants!).
Day 7 was our last and final day. That night a new Miss Minnesota would be crowned and I felt very relaxed knowing that God's Plan for my life far surpassed the outcome of the pageant that night. I knew I had done everything I could have possibly done, left my heart and soul on that stage, and remained fully myself in the process! I knew I could leave that night feeling fulfilled. I didn't walk away as Miss Minnesota, but the friendships that were formed and the memories made were far greater than anything a crown could ever give me. There are no words to describe how fantastic the week was! I walked away that night as the Miss America Community Service winner for the work that I've done with the Alzheimer's Association and my personal platform promoting children and teen dementia education. That was a huge honor and I will continue to fight for a cure long after my competitive pageant days have come to an end. This is a life-long commitment for me.
Thank you for all that supported me on this journey! I know and understand that God has something greater in store for me and I can't wait to see what exactly that entails :)
With love and gratitude,
Bailey
Miss Brainerd Lakes 2013
Monday, June 9, 2014
Day 2 of Miss Minnesota week.
Day 2 of Miss Minnesota week has been incredible! I am having so much fun and am feeling so blessed to be here.
The day started with a trip to Gillette Children's Hospital in St. Paul in which we were fed breakfast and able to meet Minnesota's Children's Miracle Network Champion family. Michael and his parents are so incredibly inspirational. Michael was born with Apert Syndrome, rare genetic disorder causing birth defects. I know Michael will continue to be a shining light to his parents and others around him.
We then had a chance to spend time with patients in the waiting room of Gillette. It was so much fun to interact with the kids as they were almost star-struck because of all the crowns! There were many autographs signed and many pictures taken, but nothing will compare to the pure joy and excitement that were evident on their faces. They reminded me that life is so precious and that no matter what stone we've been given, we are not to let it define us.
We took a tour of Gillette as well. It is fascinating to see the innovation happening in our backyards in terms of the medical field. It was clear that those that work at Gillette have such a heart for pediatrics and truly enjoy their jobs.
After our time at Gillette was over, we rode in style back to our hotel in two stretch SUV limos. We were given a fantastic lunch, then thrust into rehearsals in which we learned the opening production number! The dance is so much fun and I know it's going to be a great show.
We then had some down time before getting ready to attend the Saint Paul Saints baseball game! I enjoy baseball and getting to interact with the fans was fun. I should be used to all of the pictures that were taken, but somehow it just seems as if the farther we get into pageant week, the more photos we take. The Saints won and we could leave the field happy :)
There was a major jam session on the way back to the hotel (in a huge party bus I might add!) and a powerful group prayer. This week has already been a huge test on my faith, but I'm thankful to be surrounded my women who keep me accountable and want to help me strengthen my faith.
Day 3 will be busy, and I can't wait to fill you in!
Much love,
B
The day started with a trip to Gillette Children's Hospital in St. Paul in which we were fed breakfast and able to meet Minnesota's Children's Miracle Network Champion family. Michael and his parents are so incredibly inspirational. Michael was born with Apert Syndrome, rare genetic disorder causing birth defects. I know Michael will continue to be a shining light to his parents and others around him.
We then had a chance to spend time with patients in the waiting room of Gillette. It was so much fun to interact with the kids as they were almost star-struck because of all the crowns! There were many autographs signed and many pictures taken, but nothing will compare to the pure joy and excitement that were evident on their faces. They reminded me that life is so precious and that no matter what stone we've been given, we are not to let it define us.
We took a tour of Gillette as well. It is fascinating to see the innovation happening in our backyards in terms of the medical field. It was clear that those that work at Gillette have such a heart for pediatrics and truly enjoy their jobs.
After our time at Gillette was over, we rode in style back to our hotel in two stretch SUV limos. We were given a fantastic lunch, then thrust into rehearsals in which we learned the opening production number! The dance is so much fun and I know it's going to be a great show.
We then had some down time before getting ready to attend the Saint Paul Saints baseball game! I enjoy baseball and getting to interact with the fans was fun. I should be used to all of the pictures that were taken, but somehow it just seems as if the farther we get into pageant week, the more photos we take. The Saints won and we could leave the field happy :)
There was a major jam session on the way back to the hotel (in a huge party bus I might add!) and a powerful group prayer. This week has already been a huge test on my faith, but I'm thankful to be surrounded my women who keep me accountable and want to help me strengthen my faith.
Day 3 will be busy, and I can't wait to fill you in!
Much love,
B
Sunday, June 8, 2014
Day 1 of Miss Minnesota week.
Just a quick update on how this day went!
Check-in began at 1pm this afternoon. I was able to sign the official Miss Minnesota poster and pose for some pictures before given my room key to unpack and prepare for the week ahead.
Today was so much fun, as we spent the day at the Mall of America! First, we spent time at Nickelodeon Universe. Though I'm not a huge ride fan, I'm proud of myself for making it on one roller coaster before deciding to sit out on the rest.
Next, we headed to the Barbie Dream House Exhibit! I was so excited about this as I have wanted to go for many weeks. It was so much to be a little girl again and just enjoy the time I had with the other contestants. If you haven't seen this exhibit yet, I highly recommend it!
On the agenda next was dinner at Skyzone. This is always a fun dinner because not only do we get to eat delicious food but we also get to play arcade games! It was such a fantastic night and it was great getting to know the rest of the contestants. I'm looking forward to what this week has in store :)
Thanks for your prayers,
Bailey
Miss Brainerd Lakes 2013
Check-in began at 1pm this afternoon. I was able to sign the official Miss Minnesota poster and pose for some pictures before given my room key to unpack and prepare for the week ahead.
Today was so much fun, as we spent the day at the Mall of America! First, we spent time at Nickelodeon Universe. Though I'm not a huge ride fan, I'm proud of myself for making it on one roller coaster before deciding to sit out on the rest.
Next, we headed to the Barbie Dream House Exhibit! I was so excited about this as I have wanted to go for many weeks. It was so much to be a little girl again and just enjoy the time I had with the other contestants. If you haven't seen this exhibit yet, I highly recommend it!
On the agenda next was dinner at Skyzone. This is always a fun dinner because not only do we get to eat delicious food but we also get to play arcade games! It was such a fantastic night and it was great getting to know the rest of the contestants. I'm looking forward to what this week has in store :)
Thanks for your prayers,
Bailey
Miss Brainerd Lakes 2013
Saturday, June 7, 2014
Thoughts Before I Leave for Miss Minnesota
First, I have to say a thank you to everyone for all of your prayers and words of encouragment. It is because of the support I've recieved that I've been able to get through this week.
Yesterday, I enjoyed a day of pampering! The Miss Brainerd Lakes Scholarship Program has some incredible sponsors, and they have made me feel beautiful and ready for what next week will bring me. The day started with a manicure and pedicure at Panache Salon and Spa in Baxter. Monica and the staff graciously donated their services to my sister queen and I to make sure our nails looked Miss Minnesota ready. I'm beyond grateful for their generous donation! Then I was off to my mom's salon for a hair cut and color. Any woman can vouch for me when I say that getting your hair done is one of the most fantastic things because it makes you feel so empowered and ready to take on the world! Many thanks to my mom for always making my hair look fantastic. Finally, my day of pampering ended with a trip to The Red Umrella for a perfect tan. Thanks to PJ and her skills in making sure I always look natural and flawless. I seriously have the best team behind me! Thank you so much!!
Today, as many of you know, I had my Tracie Joy McBride Quality of Life interview and platform presentation. There is no better honor than being a finalist for this award, and I put forth everything I could and everything I had. Ultimately, I know it's in the Lord's Hands and I'm grateful that it is. No matter the outcome, I'm proud to be a finalist and would be happy for any one of the other four finalist. They are incredible individuals and I've been blessed to have the chance to get to know them through the years that I've been competing! Thanks for your prayers I've patiently waited through the application process and thank you to the McBride family and the committee they have formed to keep Tracie's legacy alive. Tracie will never be forgetten because of the efforts put forth by these incredble individuals.
Tomorrow, I check in for Miss Minnesota week. I am about to embark on one crazy journey and could not be more excited! It will be one busy week but I am feeling more than prepared for what lay ahead of me.
Truthfully, when I first started competing, Miss Minnesota seemed so far out of reach. I never thought I would make it to the Miss stage. The Miss contestants were always the ones I looked up to the most but never imaged myself in their shoes. Now here I am, preparing to leave for Miss Minnesota week and compete on that prestigous stage! I am now that girl I always looked up to and it has become so surreal.
I didn't know my pageant journey would bring me to where I am today. The Miss America Program has truly shaped me into the person I am today. I started competing in this program as a shy fourteen year old who refused to order her own food at a restaurant. Now, though still a bit of an introvert, I have been given the skills to speak to any audience with ease and can now confidently order my own food at a restaurant (are you proud?!). This program as motivated me to be healthy - in mind, body, and spirit. I have learned to always put my mental health before anything and pride myself in knowing that I am in the right place mentally. I've also been motivated to eat healthier and get active because I want to treat my body right, not because I feel pressure to be thin. Plus, I've grown stronger in my faith and fully understand and believe in my heart that God is the Great I Am and Ultimate Planner.
Miss Minnesota 2014 is crowned in one week and I wanted to let you all into my heart to see how I've been doing.
Mentally, I feel fantastic. I am so excited to spend the week with such an elite group of women and to represent my beautiful community. That has been my focus going into this. I want to walk away knowing the week was a blast. While making Top 11 would be great, I know that God's plans are greater than any plan I could formulate on my own. This has given me great peace.
Physically, I feel great. I'm very comfortable in my own skin and I know who I am. I am a daughter of the Most High and no matter how much I weigh (or how little I weigh), Christ's love for me will never change. My worth in grounded in The Lord, not in the score the judges give me in swimsuit.
Spirtitually, I've been feeling God's presence more and more as I get closer to check in. It really started today as I began my Quality of Life interview. I've never felt closer to God than I do right now and I know this closeness will continue through pageant week. I'm thankful for good friends who will be leading a Bible study during the week to keep me and others in the right mindset,
So again, thank you for all of the prayers! They are much appreciated. I'm surrounded my some pretty great people and couldn't feel more blessed! Thank you all!
Your Sister in Christ,
Bailey Wachholz
Miss Brainerd Lakes 2013
Yesterday, I enjoyed a day of pampering! The Miss Brainerd Lakes Scholarship Program has some incredible sponsors, and they have made me feel beautiful and ready for what next week will bring me. The day started with a manicure and pedicure at Panache Salon and Spa in Baxter. Monica and the staff graciously donated their services to my sister queen and I to make sure our nails looked Miss Minnesota ready. I'm beyond grateful for their generous donation! Then I was off to my mom's salon for a hair cut and color. Any woman can vouch for me when I say that getting your hair done is one of the most fantastic things because it makes you feel so empowered and ready to take on the world! Many thanks to my mom for always making my hair look fantastic. Finally, my day of pampering ended with a trip to The Red Umrella for a perfect tan. Thanks to PJ and her skills in making sure I always look natural and flawless. I seriously have the best team behind me! Thank you so much!!
Today, as many of you know, I had my Tracie Joy McBride Quality of Life interview and platform presentation. There is no better honor than being a finalist for this award, and I put forth everything I could and everything I had. Ultimately, I know it's in the Lord's Hands and I'm grateful that it is. No matter the outcome, I'm proud to be a finalist and would be happy for any one of the other four finalist. They are incredible individuals and I've been blessed to have the chance to get to know them through the years that I've been competing! Thanks for your prayers I've patiently waited through the application process and thank you to the McBride family and the committee they have formed to keep Tracie's legacy alive. Tracie will never be forgetten because of the efforts put forth by these incredble individuals.
Tomorrow, I check in for Miss Minnesota week. I am about to embark on one crazy journey and could not be more excited! It will be one busy week but I am feeling more than prepared for what lay ahead of me.
Truthfully, when I first started competing, Miss Minnesota seemed so far out of reach. I never thought I would make it to the Miss stage. The Miss contestants were always the ones I looked up to the most but never imaged myself in their shoes. Now here I am, preparing to leave for Miss Minnesota week and compete on that prestigous stage! I am now that girl I always looked up to and it has become so surreal.
I didn't know my pageant journey would bring me to where I am today. The Miss America Program has truly shaped me into the person I am today. I started competing in this program as a shy fourteen year old who refused to order her own food at a restaurant. Now, though still a bit of an introvert, I have been given the skills to speak to any audience with ease and can now confidently order my own food at a restaurant (are you proud?!). This program as motivated me to be healthy - in mind, body, and spirit. I have learned to always put my mental health before anything and pride myself in knowing that I am in the right place mentally. I've also been motivated to eat healthier and get active because I want to treat my body right, not because I feel pressure to be thin. Plus, I've grown stronger in my faith and fully understand and believe in my heart that God is the Great I Am and Ultimate Planner.
Miss Minnesota 2014 is crowned in one week and I wanted to let you all into my heart to see how I've been doing.
Mentally, I feel fantastic. I am so excited to spend the week with such an elite group of women and to represent my beautiful community. That has been my focus going into this. I want to walk away knowing the week was a blast. While making Top 11 would be great, I know that God's plans are greater than any plan I could formulate on my own. This has given me great peace.
Physically, I feel great. I'm very comfortable in my own skin and I know who I am. I am a daughter of the Most High and no matter how much I weigh (or how little I weigh), Christ's love for me will never change. My worth in grounded in The Lord, not in the score the judges give me in swimsuit.
Spirtitually, I've been feeling God's presence more and more as I get closer to check in. It really started today as I began my Quality of Life interview. I've never felt closer to God than I do right now and I know this closeness will continue through pageant week. I'm thankful for good friends who will be leading a Bible study during the week to keep me and others in the right mindset,
So again, thank you for all of the prayers! They are much appreciated. I'm surrounded my some pretty great people and couldn't feel more blessed! Thank you all!
Your Sister in Christ,
Bailey Wachholz
Miss Brainerd Lakes 2013
Thursday, June 5, 2014
Two Weeks at a Glance
I have been so busy these past two weeks leading up to Miss Minnesota!
After completing a rough finals week, I was off to Hudson, WI for an overnight camping adventure. I am one of five Miss Minnesota gals to participate in an awards program called the Duke of Edinburgh. Duke of Edinburgh is a self-development program in which participants engage in a variety of categories to develop life-skills. This program was just brought to Minnesota, so all five of us are working towards our Bronze medal (after that, we will work for silver and gold). A part of the Bronze medal includes an "Adventurous Journey", and for our journey we stayed at Camp St. Croix on the St. Croix river and participated in service projects and cooked meals. It was a fantastic weekend, and next week I will recieve my Bronze medal at one of the preliminary nights of competition.
Upon returning home, I unpacked my car to settle in for the summer. It feels great to be back home, but it has been crazy busy with appearances and final preparations.
The Sunday before Memorial Day, I was at Cragun's Resort and participated in their annual Military Appreciation Day. My sisters queens and I, along with Miss Minnesota 2013 Rebecca Yeh, participated in the parade and had a chance to speak onstage. I've attended this event for the past three years and every year, I leave feeling empowered and grateful for the service men and women who sacrificed so much for our beautiful country. It was a fantastic day and I was thankful to be a part of it.
Last week, I was up early to speak to the Sunrise Rotary in Baxter about Alzheimer's and my story. I was asked to speak to this group by a member who happened to read my story in Her Voice magazine. The man that asked me to speak has been touched by Alzheimer's as his sister struggles with the late stages in a local nursing home. It's people like this man who continue to inspire me and remind me why Alzheimer's education is so important.
The same day, I spoke to the Noon Sertoma in Brainerd about the upcoming Walk to End Alzheimer's in Brainerd this coming September. I spoke with Brenda Beard, who runs the MN-ND Alzheimer's Association's Duluth Office. Brenda has always been a huge supporter of mine and I was so excited to be able to speak along side her for the first time about one of my favorite events of the year!
I am very honored to announce that I have been chosen as a Tracie Joy McBride Quality of Life finalist! Only five finalist were chosen for this prestigious award and I am blessed to be one of them. Tracie tragically passed away nineteen years ago, but her memory as been kept live by her incredible family. I've had the privilege of getting to know the McBride family these past couple of years and have been continually inspired by their faith and compassion. They are an incredible family! I'm very happy that I get to participate in a program that keeps Tracie's memory alive. On Saturday I will participate in an interview and present a ten minute presentation to a panel of judges. From there, a winner and first runner up will be announce on one of the preliminary nights of competition next week. I'm honored and blessed just to be a finalist.
Finally, last Saturday was my send-off party to Miss Minnesota 2014. We had a fantastic turnout in which they had the chance to see my wardrobe, talent, and interview skills. I was beyond happy at how many people came to support me and my sister queen, Lauren. I am surrounded by such incredible people! If you are following me on Facebook, you see that I post a "thank you" photo everyday of people who have helped and supported me on this crazy journey. I had no idea the plan God had for my life when He placed the Miss Brainerd Lakes crown on my head. He certainly knew what He was doing though and I'm so grateful for all of the doors that have opened these past nine months.
Thanks to all of you for the support! Only 3 days until Miss Minnesota check-in!!
With love,
Bailey
Miss Brainerd Lakes 2013
After completing a rough finals week, I was off to Hudson, WI for an overnight camping adventure. I am one of five Miss Minnesota gals to participate in an awards program called the Duke of Edinburgh. Duke of Edinburgh is a self-development program in which participants engage in a variety of categories to develop life-skills. This program was just brought to Minnesota, so all five of us are working towards our Bronze medal (after that, we will work for silver and gold). A part of the Bronze medal includes an "Adventurous Journey", and for our journey we stayed at Camp St. Croix on the St. Croix river and participated in service projects and cooked meals. It was a fantastic weekend, and next week I will recieve my Bronze medal at one of the preliminary nights of competition.
Upon returning home, I unpacked my car to settle in for the summer. It feels great to be back home, but it has been crazy busy with appearances and final preparations.
The Sunday before Memorial Day, I was at Cragun's Resort and participated in their annual Military Appreciation Day. My sisters queens and I, along with Miss Minnesota 2013 Rebecca Yeh, participated in the parade and had a chance to speak onstage. I've attended this event for the past three years and every year, I leave feeling empowered and grateful for the service men and women who sacrificed so much for our beautiful country. It was a fantastic day and I was thankful to be a part of it.
Last week, I was up early to speak to the Sunrise Rotary in Baxter about Alzheimer's and my story. I was asked to speak to this group by a member who happened to read my story in Her Voice magazine. The man that asked me to speak has been touched by Alzheimer's as his sister struggles with the late stages in a local nursing home. It's people like this man who continue to inspire me and remind me why Alzheimer's education is so important.
The same day, I spoke to the Noon Sertoma in Brainerd about the upcoming Walk to End Alzheimer's in Brainerd this coming September. I spoke with Brenda Beard, who runs the MN-ND Alzheimer's Association's Duluth Office. Brenda has always been a huge supporter of mine and I was so excited to be able to speak along side her for the first time about one of my favorite events of the year!
I am very honored to announce that I have been chosen as a Tracie Joy McBride Quality of Life finalist! Only five finalist were chosen for this prestigious award and I am blessed to be one of them. Tracie tragically passed away nineteen years ago, but her memory as been kept live by her incredible family. I've had the privilege of getting to know the McBride family these past couple of years and have been continually inspired by their faith and compassion. They are an incredible family! I'm very happy that I get to participate in a program that keeps Tracie's memory alive. On Saturday I will participate in an interview and present a ten minute presentation to a panel of judges. From there, a winner and first runner up will be announce on one of the preliminary nights of competition next week. I'm honored and blessed just to be a finalist.
Finally, last Saturday was my send-off party to Miss Minnesota 2014. We had a fantastic turnout in which they had the chance to see my wardrobe, talent, and interview skills. I was beyond happy at how many people came to support me and my sister queen, Lauren. I am surrounded by such incredible people! If you are following me on Facebook, you see that I post a "thank you" photo everyday of people who have helped and supported me on this crazy journey. I had no idea the plan God had for my life when He placed the Miss Brainerd Lakes crown on my head. He certainly knew what He was doing though and I'm so grateful for all of the doors that have opened these past nine months.
Thanks to all of you for the support! Only 3 days until Miss Minnesota check-in!!
With love,
Bailey
Miss Brainerd Lakes 2013
Cragun's Memorial Day celebration with Irma Cragun!
Sunrise Rotary
Noon Sertoma
Lauren and I at our sendoff!
Bev, my Miss Brainerd Lakes sister! Bev ws Miss Brainerd Lakes 1954 :)
Our incredible director, Cyndi!
Saturday, May 24, 2014
Why I Continue To Write Blogs
I was thinking about blogs and the purpose they serve and thought I might as well collect my thoughts in a blog (what better way, right?).
I have always been a fan of blogs. Even when I'm not competing, I keep a blog updated simply because it becomes a mean of expressing myself in a healthy way. I never expect people to read them, but am grateful to those that do!
With every title I've held, I've kept up a blog to keep my faithful supporters updated, but also so I can look back and reminisce on the year that I had.
I also think there is a negative stereotype of pageants in general. It has been my goal to write my blogs in hopes of changing the thinking of those people that think pageantry exploits women. They don't. I hope that people read my blog and see how empowering pageants are, especially the Miss America Organization. I hope that people see how much I've grown with the program and how much I've learned in the 5 years I've been competing. Even if my blog changes the view of only one person on pageants, then my blog has served its purpose.
It's your own opinion on what purpose blogs serve and if they are even relevant. I seem to average 75-150 views on each blog I post, which gives me reason to believe that people are in fact reading my blogs and are interested in what I have to say but also that they are relevant.
So thanks to those of you that read my blog! You inspire me to keep writing them. Look for another blog later this week to hear how my Miss Minnesota prep has been going and the busy two weeks I have left before I check in for Miss Minnesota week.
Bailey
Miss Brainerd Lakes 2013
I have always been a fan of blogs. Even when I'm not competing, I keep a blog updated simply because it becomes a mean of expressing myself in a healthy way. I never expect people to read them, but am grateful to those that do!
With every title I've held, I've kept up a blog to keep my faithful supporters updated, but also so I can look back and reminisce on the year that I had.
I also think there is a negative stereotype of pageants in general. It has been my goal to write my blogs in hopes of changing the thinking of those people that think pageantry exploits women. They don't. I hope that people read my blog and see how empowering pageants are, especially the Miss America Organization. I hope that people see how much I've grown with the program and how much I've learned in the 5 years I've been competing. Even if my blog changes the view of only one person on pageants, then my blog has served its purpose.
It's your own opinion on what purpose blogs serve and if they are even relevant. I seem to average 75-150 views on each blog I post, which gives me reason to believe that people are in fact reading my blogs and are interested in what I have to say but also that they are relevant.
So thanks to those of you that read my blog! You inspire me to keep writing them. Look for another blog later this week to hear how my Miss Minnesota prep has been going and the busy two weeks I have left before I check in for Miss Minnesota week.
Bailey
Miss Brainerd Lakes 2013
Thursday, May 15, 2014
Worry
Sometimes I have no idea where God is taking my life.
I'm not sure I've ever felt so much stress and confusion in my entire life at the things God is throwing at my life, and I'll admit that it's been taking a toll on me.
Many of you know that I've been busily preparing for Miss Minnesota 2014 for the past eight and a half months while volunteering over ten hours a week as Miss Brainerd Lakes 2013. Preparation has consisted of weekly piano lessons, nutritionist appointments, mock interviews twice a month, and mental training as I prepare for the week of Miss Minnesota. There have been many long car rides and sleepless nights, but ultimately I know that my hard work is going to pay off in the end regardless of what happens in June when a new Miss Minnesota is crowned. I've greatly enjoyed this new and exciting journey in my life and I know that God is preparing for me something greater.
Along with my Miss Brainerd Lakes duties, I've somehow managed to (almost!) complete my first year of college at Bethel University. Next week is the start of finals week then I will be officially moving back home for the summer. Next year, I will have Junior standing and will be on board to finishing school in two years with my degree in Accounting and Finance and a minor in Leadership. While I'm excited at the plan God has laid out for my life, the Accounting field is hard and will only get harder as I begin to take more upper-level Accounting classes.
But what many don't know about are the things happening behind the scenes. I've watched my father's health decline even more as he struggles with Alzheimer's disease and heart complications. My mom has single-handedly become his sole caregiver while also maintaining our home and working as much as possible. She is such a blessing.
God has decided that I can add a few more things to my plate as I prepare to say farewell to my boyfriend for the summer as he moves to Texas for a great job opportunity. Along with that, he will be leaving in October for Fort Sill in Oklahoma for 17 weeks to complete basic training for the Army National Guard. He felt God calling him to serve and I am so proud of him for this. But it certainly doesn't make life any easier as I realize how little I will be able to see him.
Life has brought me down the past two days. I was trying to trust the plan God had for everything, but was getting so caught up in my stress and worry. I called my mom tonight in tears asking why all of this was getting shoved on my plate. Though she couldn't answer my question, the best advice she gave me was to open my Bible and just read.
The minute I got off the phone I opened my Bible to Matthew 6:33 and 34 which reads as follows:
"But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own."
There was no way I opened to this passage by coincidence. God knew exactly what I needed to hear and it has brought me great peace.
So the purpose of this blog to remind you that God has a plan for everything. You may not believe it right now, but eventually you will see that things work out in His favor. He cares for you. He loves you more in a moment than anyone could in a lifetime. That is so important to remember especially in times of great stress when you don't always feel his presence.
I don't know every little thing that goes on in each of your lives, but I do know that earthly things can never quench our thirst. Jesus is the only one and I hope that you can find Him in times of great trial.
Your Sister in Christ,
Bailey
Miss Brainerd Lakes 2013
I'm not sure I've ever felt so much stress and confusion in my entire life at the things God is throwing at my life, and I'll admit that it's been taking a toll on me.
Many of you know that I've been busily preparing for Miss Minnesota 2014 for the past eight and a half months while volunteering over ten hours a week as Miss Brainerd Lakes 2013. Preparation has consisted of weekly piano lessons, nutritionist appointments, mock interviews twice a month, and mental training as I prepare for the week of Miss Minnesota. There have been many long car rides and sleepless nights, but ultimately I know that my hard work is going to pay off in the end regardless of what happens in June when a new Miss Minnesota is crowned. I've greatly enjoyed this new and exciting journey in my life and I know that God is preparing for me something greater.
Along with my Miss Brainerd Lakes duties, I've somehow managed to (almost!) complete my first year of college at Bethel University. Next week is the start of finals week then I will be officially moving back home for the summer. Next year, I will have Junior standing and will be on board to finishing school in two years with my degree in Accounting and Finance and a minor in Leadership. While I'm excited at the plan God has laid out for my life, the Accounting field is hard and will only get harder as I begin to take more upper-level Accounting classes.
But what many don't know about are the things happening behind the scenes. I've watched my father's health decline even more as he struggles with Alzheimer's disease and heart complications. My mom has single-handedly become his sole caregiver while also maintaining our home and working as much as possible. She is such a blessing.
God has decided that I can add a few more things to my plate as I prepare to say farewell to my boyfriend for the summer as he moves to Texas for a great job opportunity. Along with that, he will be leaving in October for Fort Sill in Oklahoma for 17 weeks to complete basic training for the Army National Guard. He felt God calling him to serve and I am so proud of him for this. But it certainly doesn't make life any easier as I realize how little I will be able to see him.
Life has brought me down the past two days. I was trying to trust the plan God had for everything, but was getting so caught up in my stress and worry. I called my mom tonight in tears asking why all of this was getting shoved on my plate. Though she couldn't answer my question, the best advice she gave me was to open my Bible and just read.
The minute I got off the phone I opened my Bible to Matthew 6:33 and 34 which reads as follows:
"But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own."
There was no way I opened to this passage by coincidence. God knew exactly what I needed to hear and it has brought me great peace.
So the purpose of this blog to remind you that God has a plan for everything. You may not believe it right now, but eventually you will see that things work out in His favor. He cares for you. He loves you more in a moment than anyone could in a lifetime. That is so important to remember especially in times of great stress when you don't always feel his presence.
I don't know every little thing that goes on in each of your lives, but I do know that earthly things can never quench our thirst. Jesus is the only one and I hope that you can find Him in times of great trial.
Your Sister in Christ,
Bailey
Miss Brainerd Lakes 2013
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